tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post1937520156723265519..comments2024-03-27T04:15:17.121-05:00Comments on Anchors Aweigh : Be Prepared: You're Going To Grieve DifferentlyChelsea Phelpshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16547103356876265384noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-11371050237080251252015-01-09T13:01:55.323-06:002015-01-09T13:01:55.323-06:00You poor dear. I am so sorry for your loss, and I...You poor dear. I am so sorry for your loss, and I pray that your body and spirit heal. I know you are a person of faith. Just envision your little one waiting for you in heaven, praying for you throughout your life, and cheering you on as one of the "great cloud of witnesses" until you are reunited someday.Ari Mackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12353619692848596247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-17101644566900525582015-01-09T11:36:41.493-06:002015-01-09T11:36:41.493-06:00Don't know if this is the wrong thing to post,...Don't know if this is the wrong thing to post, but my church made this video about one couple's experience with the loss of their baby. Thought it might be encouraging to know that God's ways and plans are perfect and he is in control no matter what. Hope it isn't seen as insincere or rude.<br /><br />Love your blog!! Read it all the time!<br /><br />https://newspring.cc/stories/jamie-elizabeth-joshua-salmonRachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07346030701483077841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-68563357961164903572015-01-08T15:23:31.496-06:002015-01-08T15:23:31.496-06:00You both will continue to grieve differently forev...You both will continue to grieve differently forever and always. I lost several pregnancies and have three living/breathing children today. Still YEARS out from those loses there are days where it is hard. Something will remind me of the baby lost at five and a half months or the early miscarriages I had. My husband is there to support me and worry about me as his wife but he doesn't understand what it feels like to carry a gift like that. You can explain and explain.<br />I commend you both for grieving the way that you both need to. It's hard, really hard. Thinking positive thoughts for you and Parker.Flmgodoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10552638885168223394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-56064001386075460792015-01-07T18:11:27.084-06:002015-01-07T18:11:27.084-06:00Your faith and strength is amazing. There are coup...Your faith and strength is amazing. There are couples that don't survive this event for this reason. I can't imagine the emotion and grief you both feel and will continue to feel for the rest of your lives. I do know though that you are a great mom and I look forward to the day you become a mom again.Kaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08794428309252366415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-52552610559369156762015-01-07T17:48:16.224-06:002015-01-07T17:48:16.224-06:00Thank you so much for sharing your story! I didn&#...Thank you so much for sharing your story! I didn't even think about how the loss is affecting both of you differently. Praying that you and Parker can grow closer through this situation!Bailey Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05904495049588769715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-497498923218087972015-01-07T16:44:13.475-06:002015-01-07T16:44:13.475-06:00Thanks for sharing this post with us Chelsea. Send...Thanks for sharing this post with us Chelsea. Sending big hugs and prayers y’alls way. xxAshley Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01267658682780736896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-28170450178606058442015-01-07T15:41:35.672-06:002015-01-07T15:41:35.672-06:00Thank you so much for sharing this Chelsea! I'...Thank you so much for sharing this Chelsea! I'm so sorry for your loss. We micarried last week and it is by far one of the hardest things I've had to deal with. We had battled infertility and one of the treatments had finally worked. It is soul crushing. My faith has been strong, but right now everything feels so dark and hopeless even if my head tells me otherwise. It helps to remember I'm not alone, even if we process differently. xoAngie@Chasingmyhalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08963022048118913269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-24754346949328900252015-01-07T15:34:47.543-06:002015-01-07T15:34:47.543-06:00Wow, Chelsea. I didn't realize you were 5 mont...Wow, Chelsea. I didn't realize you were 5 months along. I'm really praying for you guys during the tough time. I think this post was really eye opening about dealing with the "aftermath" (hate to use that word) a miscarriage and how it differs from person to person. Be strong!<br /><br />~Ashley @ A Cute Angle<br />acutelifestyle.blogspot.comAshley @ A Cute Anglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02142492663025989535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-90149183355740058582015-01-07T15:09:49.714-06:002015-01-07T15:09:49.714-06:00Wow! This brings tears to my eyes and emotion to m...Wow! This brings tears to my eyes and emotion to my throat because I remember when I miscarried last year. I also remember grieving differently then my husband and wondered why he didn't openly grieve like I did...I knew why but it was hard for me to process at the time. Thank you so much for sharing your story and your heart. I'm grateful that you have a husband that is able to communicate what he thinks. That helps so much. {{hugs}}Mrs. M ~ a.k.a. ~ Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08273843782281873489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-42165636903336112782015-01-07T13:17:44.530-06:002015-01-07T13:17:44.530-06:00I remember on Mother's Day last year I was ups...I remember on Mother's Day last year I was upset that my husband said it really wasn't a day for me yet. However I was 6 months pregnant. It's so try that a woman becomes a mother the very second she finds out she is expecting. Wishing you strength - I know it can't be easy. Glad you have Parker to lean on and an angel watching over you. xoHappily Ever Parkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02196626265238318051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-37353211219467616532015-01-07T12:10:35.147-06:002015-01-07T12:10:35.147-06:00I had a miscarriage before Evelyn, and saw the sam...I had a miscarriage before Evelyn, and saw the same thing with myself and Jarrod. My doctor suggested to let my miscarriage happen naturally rather than have a D&C. Little did we know that my miscarriage would last 3 months! Jarrod was very supportive, but I had a constant reminder every day for three months, so we definitely did grieve differently.Jenny @ Creatively Bloominghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05021415602066756289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-3216695560779598312015-01-07T12:00:57.523-06:002015-01-07T12:00:57.523-06:00You continue to allow God to bring Himself glory t...You continue to allow God to bring Himself glory through your struggle. We all continue to be so thankful for you and your authenticity on the journey! Love you both!<br />Kenyon DraughonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12720016923252819340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-44478609874996475942015-01-07T11:26:53.014-06:002015-01-07T11:26:53.014-06:00i'm so thankful you shared this.
just to remin...i'm so thankful you shared this.<br />just to remind everyone that grief is different for each person. <3 to both of you! Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06015897070916345752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-65126074812946335642015-01-07T10:09:49.946-06:002015-01-07T10:09:49.946-06:00Thank you for sharing this Chelsea and being so ho...Thank you for sharing this Chelsea and being so honest with your feelings and all that you are going through right now. I am keeping you guys in my prayers <3Carlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10337403009854474701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-37526570831059867812015-01-07T09:48:33.157-06:002015-01-07T09:48:33.157-06:00You and Parker have been and continue to be in my ...You and Parker have been and continue to be in my prayers...Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05900413545108321127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-85337182202631801552015-01-07T09:10:19.067-06:002015-01-07T09:10:19.067-06:00Praying for you and Parker, sweet girl! You are un...Praying for you and Parker, sweet girl! You are unbelievably strong and have come such a long way. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you're dealing with, but you have an amazingly strong foundation in the Lord and a supporting, loving husband to get you through this. You have honored them both through this difficult time and you should be oh so proud of yourself! Briannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12068633642567781108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-66199741201563284242015-01-07T08:40:39.264-06:002015-01-07T08:40:39.264-06:00It really is amazing how people grieve differently...It really is amazing how people grieve differently. You are so strong and I admire you.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01092211937888152360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-37835448438655068922015-01-07T08:25:19.585-06:002015-01-07T08:25:19.585-06:00Wow, I had never really looked at it this way. Han...Wow, I had never really looked at it this way. Hang in there - it sounds like you're both there for each other! :) Janelle Cookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192842831247369159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-57845273696646430292015-01-07T07:30:25.566-06:002015-01-07T07:30:25.566-06:00You're so strong. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️❤...You're so strong. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️❤️❤️Veronica-VeroSays!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11789847944867771326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6150410959275048873.post-44492718184271208892015-01-07T06:59:44.173-06:002015-01-07T06:59:44.173-06:00The father's grievances and feelings aren'...The father's grievances and feelings aren't something that people often hear about or even consider, really, so it's interesting to hear about this. I am so glad that you and Parker have been to comfort and support each other, even through any differences. I can't imagine what either of you have been through, but I can tell that you have so much love for Taylor and each other.The Life You Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10707874620252137789noreply@blogger.com